The Romance of Being Earnest

hello hello people! gosh! 5 followers! i greatly thank you for making the time to read my humble blog! i will try to update it frequently!! thank you all!! hearts hearts!!

i have a piece of good news to share with you all...

I'M IN A RELATIONSHIP!!

woohoo!! haha and he is sooo my ideal type. he has a perfect smile, a great toned body with muscles all at the right places and he is golden-licious! hahahahaha! oh he's japanese but born and bred entirely in Vancouver and he's 33.

okay, i can hear all that "what? 33? isn't he a bit to old for me?" okay i admit 33 is no walk in the park for me. (just so you know, i'm 22 this year) its 11 years difference and all... but i love men who are mature. they get better as they age. they are not whiney, nor spoilt. they are like fine vintage wine. the older they get the tastier they become (not too old okay. if kept too long they SPOIL) haha anyway, he's the "hubby" while i'm the "wife" so a bit of age difference wont bother us.

wait, why the open inverted commas? welll just so you know, again, i'm a guy too. so it makes that relationship kinda hard to chew for some people.

on the serious side, i think people should just connect if the like each other. they should be able to be patient with one another and understand each other's needs. another important thing is to be able to ADAPT... for those ignorant, and stubborn people, TO ADAPT means to ACCOMMODATE each other's flaws and quirks.

for example, my flaws and quirks are that i smoke (quite light, like 6 sticks a day?) and that i may be a pain in the ass at times. HE LISTENED AND HE UNDERSTOOD. His flaws are he is a workaholic and usually comes back home at like 1 in the morning. He also like to hang out with his male buddies. i understand, he's kinda straight influenced, so hanging out with the guys is like a ritual for him. I LISTENED AND UNDERSTOOD.

you have to see the relationship as a huge beautiful fresco and appreciate its beauty. Scrutinise closer and amaze at all the small brush strokes the artist intended.

in plain English, look at the big picture and appreciate what you have. All the small flaws are what make you unique as a couple.

okay, guess that's it for now. oh his name is Kenan Tanado and he now has access to my blog. so he may wish to write something here for you guys (or a personal note for myself) hehe!

thanks and love you all!!